Hey ladies don’t always leave it up to the guys to approach you. Be a flirt! Maybe the guy you like is shy or does not know how to approach you or to make that first move to meet you. You can make the first move. Believe me that men love and are relieved when a woman approaches us, because we know that she is interested in us and would like to know us better, and we will flirt back and buy you a drink or ask you out for a date or whatever we both are interested in doing together.

• Here are some ways that you can pick up a man that your interested in.

1. I have read this one many times and I am sure you will see that it will work for you if you try.
• Walk slowly past the man you want to meet and pretend to trip into his arms or his lap….. ( you women can get away with this because men think it is charming but if a man tries it he is considered to be a creep) and when you do this say something sweet to him and he will just let you fall into his arms.

2. The very best pick-up lines for women are not usually the words they say but are usually physical. Women just by reaching by a man with a slight brush of your hand or your body as if unintentional will work every time. To open up a conversation with someone you want to meet.

3. Just simply look at the man that you want to meet! When he makes contact he will come up to you and introduce himself and you two can go from there.

4. If your someplace and you see someone you’re interested in why not send a message by a waiter or someone saying that you would like to meet for tea or coffee sometime with your phone number. Men love this.

5. You could be very forward and just simply walk up to a man your interested in and say “ hey are we going to go out or what”

6. If you see a man that interest you just ask him out on a date.

7. If you’re at a party walk up to the man that you like and say …. My annoying friend over there told me that I should come and meet you, she says that we would be a perfect match for each other.

8. You can always use something as simple as saying “HI” that shows a man that you are interested in him.


Can you think of other ways? Share them with us.

EastCoast

Dave B

Hey Dave,
There is a chinese saying, 男追女,隔層紗;女追男,隔重山. It means it's much easier for a woman to approach men than for a man to approach women.
Lynn

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Hey Lynn,
Have you reversed that Chinese saying? Shouldn't it be: "男追女, 隔重山; 女追男, 隔層紗"?

hi glot,
Haha,i didn't notice the saying was wrong. You are right.
It should be 男追女, 隔重山; 女追男, 隔層紗.
Lynn

Hey Lynn:

It is ok... ha ha I did not notice. But I like the idea of a woman approaching me. Let us see how it works……. Together.

Dave B