Here is a site people talked about their love story or what
inner words they said to his /her lovers on Valentine's Day.

http://www.lovelandia.com/archive/cat_st_valentine.html

some articles from this link :

**real love **

Valentines day is the day for everyone to show the one they love how they feel. When you've been holding in feelings for someone who you care about very much, this is the day for you to finally express those feelings to that special person.

Even if that person already knows you love them, tell them again anyways. Give them something special to show you listen to what they like. You do something special for them to prove your love for them. Most of you probably feel like this is just another holiday that is too commercialized. You're right, but it still feels good to have a special day for love and love only. You look around and so many people are together and holding hands, showing their love for eachother whether it's in public or not. It's just so wonderful. Maybe I'm crazy, I do not know. I do know that there are some of you out there who agree with me.

**changed man**

I met him thru my sister at first we were close friends then one day he txt me and asked me if I wanted to come over his house I hesitated then I said yea come on over and pick me up!

When we got to his house it was weird at first but things got better we started talking and he started telling me that I was his type of girl on the ride home he just kept telling me how good we would be together and all the things we could have together! He dropped me off this started to become a everyday thing and soon enough we were together but he had this x girl that he was with for like 7 yrs and I would hear from his sister that he would be with her all the time!! So I would ask him about it n he would say no baby I aint with her stop tripping but I would hear it from other people so I thought it was true but I stayed with him and I let him know if he don’t change I’m gone I told him to leave her alone so things started to change he started to treat me better and started taking me out always taken me out 2 eat and he got me a necklace then on Valentine Day gave me his mom old wedding ring and told me he loved me and to wear it on the necklace he got me and he also got me a another ring which he got seized to fit my wedding finger I am finally happy he is always with me and does right by me so this is to all that ladies out there if you know you got you a thug and you love stay with he will hold it down sooner or later ladies thugs have feelings too promise you that one!
Love peace and haie grease!!! Signed B


ps: txt? What dose the word mean?

dave said txt=text most of the time

A love story:

What do you think after reading this story?


這是真的，愛是可以天長地久，而無怨無尤的.........
倘若，有朝一日，你讓自己平躺在戶外的草坪上，望著一覽無際蔚藍的天空，
白雲朵朵，從上方，漸漸變形、移轉、消失…，試想，當心靈沈澱後，
回憶替代那些雲彩，剎那間，你能看見，在心底深處最思念的那個人嗎？
或者，平靜的夜，拒絕房裡所有的燈火，在幽暗中，
你是否會有思念一個人的心情卻無法投遞？
我曾有過！尤其在翻閱幾年前那本日記後，思念澎湃，久久無法平息………

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仍記得莎莎結婚前後的情景。我和她熟識長達八年了，已無性別之分，
什麼歡喜、悲傷、難聽的話語，而今，點滴猶記在心頭。
那年，她結婚的當天，我是滿場飛奔喳呼的招呼，直到新拜別父母的那一刻，
我才靜下來。這種婚嫁時的場面經歷不多，
在見到莎莎身著白紗跪在她父母面的那時，突然有股感動莫名燃起。
尤其是，當莎莎的母親淌著熱淚對女婿交待著：
「我就這麼一個查囡嬰仔，我……很不甘喔！你愛好好甲伊……照顧。」
莎莎的父親是軍人出身，也許是男人的因素吧！話不用多，意思到了就好。
然而就因為如此，才讓人覺得他話中的涵意特別深遠，他說：
「給你一個老婆，除了疼以外，更要教她。..別忘了，這是一生一世的責任。」

婚宴當晚，來自各地同學的祝福，莎莎嘴巴說著感謝，卻看得出，
她內心深處的激動和五味雜陳的情緒。
因為，她將面臨的是，為人妻、為人母，既陌生而艱辛的未來。

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婚後的她和老公搬至中部，和多數居住在北部的同學，交情更加漸行漸遠。
所幸，個性外向的她，已經盡力的用時間的代價，來換取彼此空間的距離。
她老公志成，和莎莎的個性完全相反，他沈靜、靦腆，有時候，到他家作客，
一天下來他就是屬於說話不超過二十句的那種男人。


當初，莎莎將他介紹給死黨認識，十個有九個半，認為依莎莎的個性，
不超過半年，她就會因鬱悶而陣亡。沒想到，交往二年後的他們居然結婚了。
從另一個層面來看，不是她老公悶，就是我們這些死黨太聒噪了！
有一次，她跟我說要嫁給他，那時候，我記得我還問她：
「不會吧！嫁給一個個性差異那麼大的人，……妳該不是想嫁過去當啞巴吧？」
她反而回答我說：「你不覺得，相愛的人，話可以不多嗎？」
從她堅定的眼神中，證明了她自己篤定的認同感。
倒是我還不死心的追問她：「說個理由來聽聽吧！」
「理由很多啊！比如說，前一陣子我常加班，時間不固定，而他呢？能在車上等著
妳忙完一切，也許，這一等二、三個小時，他也不會回你一張臭臉，或者，會表現出不
耐煩的表情。總之，他的耐性好；還有一次，我很感動的是，我父親生日的那一天，我
忙著財務結稅的事情，竟然忘了！而他，默默的包了一份禮物，署上我的名字親自北
上，祝我父親生日快樂。直到事後第三天，我父親打電話給我，我才知道。他不愛說，
他用行動來證明一切，你知道嗎？他給了我太多的感動和那份無法言喻的心意。」
然而，我卻殘忍的回她一句：
「很多男人，婚前婚後二個樣，差別很大的！」
「如果是，那……只有抱著得之我幸，不得我命的想法了！」
看得出來，她眼中流露著疑人不嫁，嫁人不疑的神韻。
婚後不滿一年，莎莎生了一個女兒。彌月之喜，我看著莎莎強褓中的小莎莎，
親友的祝福，弄得這對母女，臉頰通紅嘴邊不時掛著淺笑。在一刻偶然間，
我經過嬰兒房，從門縫中，我聽見志成對著他滿月的女兒輕柔地說：
「謝謝妳媽咪、把妳生給我……。」
那一瞬間，我默認了，莎莎最初的選擇。

那次見面之後，因為她忙著孩子與工作，我則出國，也忙碌著創業，因此，
有兩年的光景，多年是透過電話閒聊問候，生活背景漸漸拉遠，已無法預先設想彼
此生活的模式。直到某一回，打電話到她那兒，才知道她病了！
問她老公病情如何，就罹患乳癌。這兩年已經動過兩次手術，癌細胞控制得好好時
壞，她為了不讓這些好朋友和家人操心，才隱瞞得病的訊息。

由於她的病情嚴重，所以她不得不辭去工作，安心接受化學治療和各種檢查。
然而，在那段歲月中，她和志成獨自面對病魔的肆虐，而我們這些朋友，卻沒有在
她最需要安慰的時候出現。當時我的手握著話筒，腦海裡所充斥的畫面，是孤獨、無助
的莎莎。
一聯想起來，整個心好比被撞擊過，脆弱易碎。驅車前往的當天，並沒有告知他們
夫婦，因為，深怕他們再度的隱藏；人生相逢，不就是有緣嗎？又何需隱瞞呢？即使是
善意的，尤其，更何需對我？


在她住家門前，徘徊了十多分鐘，一段開場白，想了又想，直到在混亂的情緒中，
才按下了門鈴。在大約三、四分鐘後，我聽見門鎖被旋轉開來，迎面而來的莎莎本人，
然而在門裡門外，眼神瞬間對應的那一秒鐘，令人強烈的接收，眼前的畫面，那種恍如
隔世再相逢的感覺，讓彼此呆愣住。
兩年不算長、不算短的日子，讓我瞧見的卻是，身材瘦弱髮稀疏、臉色青白、嘴唇
乾裂、身穿睡袍的她。
那一間，我說不出話來，一陣鼻酸，心也揪揪的疼，她也刻意的挺起腰桿，用力的
擠出笑容。
然而，我卻看不見她以前的影子，從她的眼神中我知道，她懼怕著這個世界，懼怕
著自己的未來，同時也懼怕和面對眼前的友人 。
在僵硬和機械式的幾句對話後，我扶著她進大廳。

在經過關的時候，發現玄關周圍，放滿了保麗龍式的箱子，每個箱子都長著綠色像
草類的植物。
她注意到我的眼光，於是，她用薄弱的語調說：
「那是志成種的，他為了我的病，聽了、也用了好多偏方來醫治我。
或許，急病亂投醫，就像是我現在這個樣子，反正，死馬當活馬醫，
只是苦了他了。他每天得接送孩子到保母那，還得親自種植小麥草，
每天打成原汁要我服用。我從生病以來，他也沒沒工作過，
每隔兩小時就衝回來看我一眼，唉！他娶了一個欠債、倒楣的老婆回家。」
「莎！別說這種話，一切還有希望的。」
「希望?! 有些話不說是不行的，然而，說了又能怎樣呢？
兩年了！我欺騙所有的人，說我忙碌，可是，誰又知道，我這個樣子，
能見誰呢？過年、過節，誰不想一家團圓，可是，我不想讓大家難過呀！」
「妳這個傻瓜！還是這個樣子，什麼苦都往心裡藏，妳難道就不能丟一些，
給我這個同學一起分擔嗎？」
她從躺椅上起來，走到電視機前，伸手將她的結婚照給捧在手上：
「分擔！你看，志成擔了一切，結果呢？跟我一樣憔悴，我對不起他。」


她望著照片放聲大哭。我迅速地走到她身邊，而她也順勢將頭靠著我的肩膀。
我輕拍她的背：「莎莎，妳要堅強起來對抗病魔，女兒需要妳！」
話才說完，她的身體突然變得無力，從我肩頭往下滑，她哽咽地說：
「同學，我好捨不得你們，有好幾次，我痛得想放棄生命，可是，每回一想到，
女兒在喊著媽媽，我都得拚著千刀萬剮的痛給撐過來！同學，我好害怕，
有一天我拚不過了，他們該怎麼辦呢？真的，我好害怕喔！」
「害怕！我也害怕失去妳呀！莎莎。」
話一說完，兩個人抱在一起，狠狠的將眼淚給釋放出來。


這時候，志成推開門一看見我們抱頭痛哭，他沒有勸阻。 因為他知道，
莎莎一向堅強，何不趁這個機會，就讓她宣洩這段病後無奈的心情吧！
隔沒多久，志成一手拿著毛巾，一手握著一杯剛榨好的麥草原汁，
他坐在椅邊，邊餵著莎莎，邊用毛巾將她哭過的痕跡輕柔地擦拭著。
從他側面望去，才發現他的眼角有著同樣的淚痕。
莎莎一喝完原汁，兩眼不聽使喚地想閉上。臨睡前，她疲累的說：
「同學，我累了，好想睡覺……」最後那個字的尾音在空中盤旋，
而她已經深深入睡了… 志成緩和的將毛毯覆蓋在她身上，
並且伸出手去摸她的額頭，事後才知道，莎莎只要一發燒，就有生命的危險，
因此，他總愛觸摸著她額上的溫度。
出她家門，落陽倦息了！肩頭一邊是載他對她的疼愛，另一頭則載負著我對她的憐
愛。

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五天後的一個深夜裡，我接到志成的電話，說莎莎發高燒，意識已經模糊了！
掛斷電話，我一路飛前往。

她家大門是虛掩的，從大門外，已能聽見莎莎母親啜泣的聲音。
我推開大門走了進去，莎莎的父親用低沈的嗓音說：
「進去吧！再看看…莎莎…一眼…」
那一瞬間，我避開了他們兩老的眼神，因為，我害怕看見的是，
白髮人送黑髮人那種無助的情感。一走進莎莎的房間，
小莎莎正熟睡在兒童床上，志成坐在床邊，讓莎莎靠在他的右胸懷裡。
我伸手握著莎莎發燙的手，我望著床上的她，而她，雙眼緊閉，
額上不停冒著汗滴，身上穿戴整齊，一件蕾絲邊的白襯衫，
一件淺藍黑色小花的長裙，僅剩的長髮，繫綁在一塊。

她默默的承受這一切，靜靜地穿著她喜歡的衣裙，再等著今生的 ──終點。
「莎！是我，我知道妳聽得見，只是……無可奈的睜不開眼睛，對不對？」
就在我哽咽著說完之後，不到幾十秒的光景，
她的手在我的手中微微的動了幾下。這個動作，迫使我接著：
「莎！我知道妳很痛苦，如果真的很痛，就放下，安心地走吧！
你爸和女兒，就交給……妳最愛的人！」

話一說完，再也撐不住的淚水，款款的流下。在幾分鐘的沈默裡，
我看著志成的臉頰側倚著莎莎的臉頰，用力擁著她，那一幕，
連天也捨不得拆散他們。志成說：
「幾天前，她問我，會不會後悔娶她，我從沒想過後悔這二個字。
直到今天，我還是這麼深信，雖然我不太會說話，但是我是真的在付出我的愛，
而老天爺一點都不公平，我們如此的相愛，錯了嗎？為什麼要拆散我們？」

他抹去眼邊的淚，接著說：
「再說這些也喚不醒她了，現在的我，只想，在她最後的這段路上，
讓女兒陪伴著她，讓她在我的懷裡……安心的走吧！在我的這一生，
她來去匆忙，我不怪她，反而，我恨自己沒有能力，給她一生的幸福；
現在，如果她知道的話，她會知道我好孤單，好不捨不得放開她！」
淚水不斷從他眼眶中，奔流而出。
一間屋子，裝載著千萬種離別，這樣的割捨，誰又能做得到呢？

放開她的手，準備離去前，我對著她說：
「莎！還記得我們以前最愛的那間花店嗎？
它搬走了，沒有人知道它何去何從，
而我卻有一種感覺，它會再出現，
而妳，我們這一別，又待何年何月再相逢呢？
妳知道嗎？我根本不想和妳說再見，因為…… 我會心痛呀……」
話還沒說完，她似乎能理解我的不捨，眼角漸漸濕潤著。

在說完那些想說的話後，我心裡明白，人事萬物，終須一別。
走出大門的瞬間，有股衝動想奔回莎莎的面前，對她說：
「妳不能死呀！妳不能拋下這麼多、這麼多愛妳的人哪……」
停駐在門前，眼前卻是一片白茫。當晚，莎莎在她的家人面 前，告別了所有！

她一直有個心願，她希望在藯藍的天空下，將她的骨灰灑在大海上，
而且，她更希望的是，能藉由女兒的雙手，將她的骨灰揮灑在海面上。
她說，天地之潦闊，土因水而滋潤，火因水而止息，
因此，水在我們的四周，也在她女兒的心中，因為，她在水裡。
那天，在碧藍的天空下，依山傍海，他們父女倆，真得做到了！
毫無遲疑地讓莎莎在無邊無際的海洋裡，自由的翱翔。

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好多年後的十月，我陪著他們父女倆，舊地重遊，天仍舊綻藍，
幾隻飛鳥輕拂著海面，志成找了一處草坪，讓女兒躺在他的胳臂上，
望著天，看著海，志成對女兒說 ：「妳看！那朵雲，像不像媽咪？」
他說的是真的，每朵雲都像是莎莎，教人想往雲裡去，也許，因為有藍天，
才能依偎著白雲，就像他們父女，彼此藍藍的依偎著，不願離分。

source from http://knight.fcu.edu.tw/~d9030298/a3.htm

I wanted to know what the story was about, so I translated it the best I could..... Thanks 123 for sharing with us such stories

EastCoast


What do you think after reading this story?


This is really, the love is may for ever and ever, but not the resentment does not have especially.........
If, some day, you let oneself evenly lie down in the outdoors lawn, looks as soon as is looking at 無際 the deep blue sky,
White clouds, from the place above, gradually distorts, 移轉, vanishes... Considers, when mind Shen Tienhou,
The recollection substitutes these clouds, 剎 that, you can see, most misses that person in the moral nature deep place?
Or, the tranquil night, resists 絕 in the room all lights, in is dark,
Whether you can have miss a person's mood actually undeliverable?
I once have had! Especially after glances through for several years ago that diary, missing rushes, is unable to subside for a very long time... ... ...

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Still remembered the sha sha marriage around scene. I and she knew well for eight years, already the asexual don't division,
Any likes, sadly, the coarse words, at the present, the intravenous drip still records in the heart.
That year, she marries the same day, I am greeting which the full house dashes grasps shouts, until newly takes one's leave the parents that moment,
I only then am static down. Time this kind of marriage scene experience are not many,
Was seeing the sha sha wears Bai Sha to kneel in her father 母面 at that time, suddenly has a move inexplicably to ignite.
In particular, when the sha sha's mother drips the tears to transfer to the son-in-law:
"I on such a Zha Nanying young, I... ... Very unwilling oh! You love well armor Iraq... ... Attendance."
The sha sha's father is the serviceman family background, perhaps is man's factor! The speech does not use much, the meaning arrived has been good.
However because of so, only then lets the person think in his speech contains Italy to be specially profound, he said:
"For you a wife, besides hurts, must teach her. . Did not forget, this was the entire life responsibility."

Wedding banquet that very evening, comes from each place schoolmate's blessing, the sha sha mouth to say the thanks, actually sees,
Her heart of hearts is excited and the five senses mixed Chen's mood.
Because, she will face, manner wife, manner mother, also strange and difficult future.

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After marriage she and the husband moves to middle, with most lives in the north schoolmate, the friendship even more 漸行漸遠.
Fortunately, individuality extroverted she, already with every effort with time price, receives in exchange for each other space the distance.
Her husband will becomes, with sha sha's individuality completely opposite, his Shen Ching, is shy, some times, sojourns to his family,
One day gets down he is belongs speaks does not surpass 20 that kind of men.


Initially, the sha sha his introduced knew to the diehards, ten have nine half, thinks according to the sha sha's individuality,
Not the ultra more than half year, she can because of melancholy die in battle. Had not thought, associates two year after they unexpectedly married.
Looked from another stratification plane that, is not her husband stuffy, was our these diehards too is boisterous!
Once, she with me said must marry for him, that time, I remembered I also ask her:
"Cannot! Marries for a each one natural difference that big person... ... 妳 should not be wants to marry works as the mute?"
She instead replied I said: "You unconsciously, fall in love the person, the speech may not be many?"
From her firm look, has proven she assuredly sympathy.
But actually I do not lose heart closely examine her: "Said a reason listens!"
"The reason are very many! For instance that, the first period of time I often work overtime, the time is not fixed, but he? Can in the vehicle superior
妳 is busy all, perhaps, this and so on two, three hours, he cannot return to you a smelly face, or, can display not
Patient expression. In brief, his patience is good; What some, I very am also affected, my father birthday that one day, I
The busy finance is tying the tax the matter, unexpectedly forgot! But he, silently has wrapped a gift, bureau on my name personally north
On, wishes my father Happy Birthday. Until afterwards third days, my father makes the phone call to me, I only then knew. He does not like saying,
He uses to move proves all, you know? He has given the regard which I too many moves and that share is unable to explain."
However, I actually cruel return to her:
"Very many men, before the wedding married the latter two types, the difference very in a big way!"
"If is, that... ... Only holds my good fortune, must I assign idea!"
Sees, in her eye reveals is doubting the person not to marry, gets married the charm which does not doubt.
After the marriage did not fill for a year, the sha sha has lived a daughter. The a full month is happy, I look at the sha sha strong 褓 center the young sha sha,
Relatives and friends' blessing, made this to the mother and daughter, nearby the cheeks very red mouth often hangs the faint smile. In a quarter accidentally between,
I pass through the baby room, from the crack in a door, I hears the will to pair his Man Yueh daughter gently to say:
"Thanks 妳 the mother, 妳 lives for me... ... . "
That flash, I have tacitly approved, sha sha initial choice.

East Coast...did u translate that yourself or through a translator?

How to save your money on valentine's Day? There are many ways such as writing a poem ,letter ...and so on.

Below is a tip,teaching us how to write a poem.


Write A Love Poem

The underlying basis of a love poem is to convey your amorous feelings towards another person. In this light, there is no wrong or right way to write a poem. If you keep this in mind, you'll find writing your poem will be a more enjoyable experience overall.



To begin with you'll need to note down the following:

***Reasons why you love your partner


***Specific physical qualities you love about your partner. For instance, their deep, blue eyes.


***What they have provided for you. Example: Your constant support and encouragement has given me the wings to fly.


***Any special words you call each other.


***What specific message you are ultimately trying to convey with your poem. For example, my life would be nothing without you, thank you for being in my life, etc.


***Tone of your poem. For instance, humorous, sentimental, etc.

You will also need access to a thesaurus, dictionary and a rhyming dictionary if you want your poem to rhyme. You can find these tools online at the following links:
Dictionary.com
Thesaurus.com
RhymeZone


Now that you have the data and ideas you need, you can begin structuring your poem. If you're a novice poet, start first with a rhyming poem. By now you should have some lines already written out. Put them in an order that flows and then fill in the rest with sentences that rhyme.

When you're done, read the poem aloud. You will most likely find a few spots that don't flow properly. Make your changes and read the poem aloud again. Continue doing this until the poem is easily read. Remember, a poem is a personal gift from the heart. As long as you are conveying an overall thought or idea it will be received with much pleasure.

Enhance your love poem!
**Write it in calligraphy.

**Use romantic stationary.

**Spray it with your perfume or cologne.

**Put it in a love card.

**Leave it on your love's pillow with a rose

source from: http://www.lovingyou.com/content/romance/content.shtml?ART=006

http://library.lovingyou.com/letters/

ps: This site also provides us how to " Creative Love Letter Ideas". There are 28 ways introduced from this site. One of ways is very funny. haha


Message In A Bottle

When you're in a long distance relationship, all you can rely on is letters, cards, emails, and telephone calls. But my boyfriend came up with a creative way to send me a letter. I got a package from him one day and I found a bottle with a letter inside! It was really cute and melted my heart! Who isn't charmed by received a message in a bottle!

這讓我想起一部電影"瓶中信". 不過我忘了那部電影的英文名稱了.

http://www.lovingyou.com/content/romance/content.shtml?ART=loveletterideas

This is a wonderful site for those that want to learn about love and how to express it.....

Thanks
EastCoast

Hello all:

The chinese Valentine's Day is coming and I wish every member here "Happy valentine's Day". .

ps. wolfy(e-papa) now I know why you often says 1+1=1 ? That means two love hearts become one. 兩個人一條心. hahaha

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The same to you, Kathy.